I think there are a lot of people who are appealing for a first date, or a short term relationship. And it seems to me that the OP likely sells himself well in that sense, but doesn’t have what is necessary to keep a girl around long-term. Such is the case with plenty of gym rats, steroids or not. If the OP is attractive, but lacks good conversational skills, or a good job, stability, whatever, that’s a perfectly reasonable explanation for his experiences. And to be fair, he may indeed act differently when approaching girls while on vs off.
see, when you say something like this, it is incumbent upon you to present evidence. In the absence of said evidence, I would be a fool for simply taking you at your word.
If I took everyone at their word, I’d believe the government was run by Lizard people, who all say ‘it is CLEARLY the case that Obama was a lizard. you’re close minded and you have a low IQ if you don’t see it.’
Are you not getting this comparison yet?