And wasn’t the boss a married dirtbag who was banging his secretary. I’m sure his wife is going to find out.
That’s awesome.
[quote]tmay11 wrote:
lovefire wrote:
First question about the ring was “how much is it worth”…nice
I loved that part!
Who thinks that she deserved it and who thinks this is going to far? [/quote]
I think she is a money grubbing whore and deserved worse.
[quote]Mufasa wrote:
tom brings up a good point of discussion…
You see it all the time…was her “hurt and regret” for what she had done…or the embarrassment (and probable big hassle now) of being caught?
Something to think about…
Mufasa[/quote]
I am gonna agree with Tom. She had regret for being caught, not what she had done.
The same holds true for most things people regret. It’s the getting caught that they regret. Ask anybody in prison. True remorse is a very rare event.
[quote]jtrinsey wrote:
Personally, I don’t like things like this, the exploitation of people’s emotions for others enjoyment. [/quote]
You mean, like sucking a guy who isn’t your fiancee’s dick ?
I think people are drastically missing my point. I never defended her actions in the least bit. In my opinion, infidelity to a partner is one of the biggest sins one can committ. However, I said that I can’t stand that stupid mentality in taking in delight in the pain of others.
Has everyone in here led such perfect lives that they can’t empathize with somebody making a terrible mistake? As I said previously, maybe she felt no regret and was only pissed that she got caught. However, my gut reaction when listening to that tape was that I was hearing somebody get utterly crushed emotionally.
Call me weird, but I don’t get off on that. I guess everybody in here enjoys watching executions as well? They certainly all “deserved” it.
Furthermore, what kind of man is so weak that he can’t face his own problems and leaves it to a radio DJ? A real man would’ve confronted her, discerned the real story and then (most likely) told her that he never wanted to see her again.
[quote]Avoids Roids wrote:
The same holds true for most things people regret. It’s the getting caught that they regret. Ask anybody in prison. True remorse is a very rare event. [/quote]
Really? Are you sure about that? Talked to a lot of inmates have you? Because I’d be willing to bet that there are quite a few prisoners who feel pretty fucking bad that they shot somebody.
Does that mean they shouldn’t go to prison? No, that’s the penalty for shooting somebody and everybody knows that, just like the penalty for infidelity is often a breakup/divorce. However, there are some things that aren’t neccessary. And even if that punishment was neccessary, I don’t enjoy watching it.
Revenge is a dish best not served at all. A real man has enough inner strength to show compassion, even to those who have hurt him.
Host:“You’re domped, you got that!?!”
Her:“Uh…errr…”
BWHAHAHAH
All this talk about “real men”. blah blah blah. I think “real men” don’t take too kindly to getting shit on by other people, I know I don’t.
[quote]jtrinsey wrote:
Has everyone in here led such perfect lives that they can’t empathize with somebody making a terrible mistake? As I said previously, maybe she felt no regret and was only pissed that she got caught. However, my gut reaction when listening to that tape was that I was hearing somebody get utterly crushed emotionally.
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No. My life has been pretty imperfect, and I account for all my mistakes. Just like that chic needs to do. Don’t do the crime if you can’t do the time.
i understand where he is coming from… i felt bad for 1 second… then im like… wait, this girl is sucking off her boss during a 4 year relationship, she very much deserves every this.
harsh treatment for a harsh action
[quote]jtrinsey wrote:
Avoids Roids wrote:
The same holds true for most things people regret. It’s the getting caught that they regret. Ask anybody in prison. True remorse is a very rare event.
Really? Are you sure about that? Talked to a lot of inmates have you? [/quote]
Yes I have. My step son is in prison and I visit him and others every week. The only true regret they have is getting caught. Not everyone was as lucky as you to inherit perfect genes and be a real man.
[quote]Avoids Roids wrote:
jtrinsey wrote:
Avoids Roids wrote:
The same holds true for most things people regret. It’s the getting caught that they regret. Ask anybody in prison. True remorse is a very rare event.
Really? Are you sure about that? Talked to a lot of inmates have you?
Yes I have. My step son is in prison and I visit him and others every week. The only true regret they have is getting caught. Not everyone was as lucky as you to inherit perfect genes and be a real man.
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Haha wow…
Perhaps you have had a different experience with people who have been in jail as I do. I know some good people who have served time and they have a lot of regret for what they did. I guess limited sample sizes lead to different conclusions.
There’s nothing about me that’s perfect, but that doesn’t stop me from not enjoying the pain of others. I hope none of you are Christian. I am not one, but if I recall, there’s something in there about showing kindness to one’s enemies. That’s all I’m saying.
I enjoy pranks as much as anybody else, but to me this is going a bit too far. You’re all entitled to your opinions though.
[quote]jtrinsey wrote:
I hope none of you are Christian. I am not one, but if I recall, there’s something in there about showing kindness to one’s enemies. [/quote]
Do you mean the “thou shalt not commit adultery” one?
[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:
jtrinsey wrote:
I hope none of you are Christian. I am not one, but if I recall, there’s something in there about showing kindness to one’s enemies.
Do you mean the “thou shalt not commit adultery” one?[/quote]
HA HA HA HA
good one
The bitch deserved it and more, stupid slut. I may not enjoy watching executions, but there is just something about revenge that is … justified in every way.
Ever seen A Man Apart? The part where the guy talks about killing his wife, and then Vin beats him to death? I don’t know if I get off on that sort of thing, but I have to admit that was a fucking awesome scene.
[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:
jtrinsey wrote:
I hope none of you are Christian. I am not one, but if I recall, there’s something in there about showing kindness to one’s enemies.
Do you mean the “thou shalt not commit adultery” one?[/quote]
Sweet, another guy trying to make a witty one-liner, totaly unrelated to the point I’m making.
In no way am I defending the actions of this girl. Allow me to repeat myself, since that apparently has been missed: In no way am I defending the actions of the girl! With earlier statements such as:
“I never defended her actions in the least bit” One would think that had been made clear. But apparently not.
My only point was, people who feel the need to take petty revenge on others are weak-minded. But whatever floats your boat.
[quote]jtrinsey wrote:
My only point was, people who feel the need to take petty revenge on others are weak-minded.
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I read your points, and I agree with them fully, and you summarised them greatly in that sentence.
However, we are merely men, and though strong we must be, there are times when we have to give in to things such as vengeance, and cannot turn the other cheek, in order to preserve our self-worth.
To not have this thread turn to a spiritualistic side, I try to be a generous, respectful man under most all situations, but you can’t let things always slip. Sometimes you need to take action for disrespect.
And even though one can say “yes, but you need to always stay calm and don’t let it bother you”, you also need to do these things in order to see why they are wrong(or why they are not).
That’s part of human development.
So, forgive this man, and this woman, but they each needed their lesson.(starting to sound like a preacher here)
The man apparantely misplaced his trust(since this had been going on for quite a while with her boss), and the woman just had to be put in her place for her lousy morals.
I wouldn’t call your fiance sucking off her boss in a closet at a Christmas party “petty.” Petty means “small” or “minor” or “of no consequence.” As for the revenge part, yes it is minor compared to the act she comitted. Anything short of physical violence in this situation would be considered minor by most rational people when compared to the heinous act of the fiance.
He should have done her mother, taped it, and sent it to both his fiance and her father.