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I know what it's like to train alone. What you should do is watch videos of people deadlifting properly. Crossfit.com and EliteFTS's section of YouTube are good starts. Since you'll have no one to critique you, you'll have to be very honest about yourself. You might want to consider purchasing Mark Rippetoe's book called "Starting Strength." It will teach you all you need to know about the deadlift, squat, bench, military press, power clean, and barbell row. And as a beginner, if those exercises are all you do then you'll be on a great road to getting jacked.
In addition to watching videos of deadlifts, you might want to give Rack Pulls a try if you have a power rack available. Perfect your form and get progressively lower and lower until you're pulling the bar from the floor instead of the safety bars in the rack.
Eat more real food. It's cheaper than "Grow! Whey"
No need to tell us this.
Good, get a job.
Again, get a job.
Are you eating regular food too? You should rely on Grow! Whey for your protein intake. I spend about $100 per week on groceries per week. FOR THREE PEOPLE! You should be able to get groceries for about $40 bucks a week. Meat, veggies, oats, cottage cheese, fruit. That's about it.
Your lifts will go up when you start eating.
Find someone in your gym that is doing them right and ask for a little coaching. Any guy or gal will gladly help you if they are a true brother or sister in iron.
Don't see how you're really helping him all that much. Don't be a dick.
If you have problems pulling with a straight back, it is most likely a mobility problem. Figure out what is the problem (since you don't have a video camera, an overhead squat test would be best, though I'm betting its tight glutes and hamstrings).
Stretch and foam roll (a foam roller or piece of PVC will only be about $10. The alternative is wrapping a liquor bottle in duct tape), and work on doing rack pulls and lowering the height regularly as your flexibility increases. Eventually your goal is to pull from the floor.
Also, look up one of the many threads on this website about how to eat as a poor college student. I think you might find some great alternatives if you look hard enough. I did.
Pretty much my MO growing up and through college
Getting in shape will help with that and should provide some amazing amounts of motivation.
I have a $60 weekly budget including all activities and gas for the car. I have Surge every workout and wouldn't have it any other way. I'd probably rather have a chicken breast or something preworkout and Surge after if I could only afford either Grow! Whey or Surge.
Congrats on the progress and weight loss. Yes you probably have lost some muscle. a 6.5lb bag of chicken breasts is $15 at sams/costco go buy yourself a couple bags and go from there. Real protein is cheaper than shakes and I would choose real over powder anytime except PWO Surge.
I did for about two months after I dropped a bunch of weight. With your age it's probably only a matter of time before it firms up.
There is a great three part series of articles on T-Nation on deadlifting. Do an article search. It was this summer sometime that I remember reading it. It has videos and tips for common issues people have. I know my form isn't perfect either and I don't have anyone else to workout with either as my friends are basically the same as yours but after I'm stretched out and warmed up I like to do some singles at about 135lbs since it puts the bar higher up and concentrate on my form. You could also do this with a empty bar but I find that I 'feel' things more with a light weight on the bar instead of nothing at all. There is also an article titled 'a joint by joint approach to training' or something like that which was helpful to tell me where to start troubleshooting.
Agreed. Granted, tough love is better than no love, but this is the beginners section so what did you expect? There's about 1/3 of every post I read that I think to myself "no need to tell us that", but it's the intraweb.
But I do agree with you that buying groceries shouldn't cost that much if you shop well. I'm guessing that me and my gf spend roughly $100 a week or so but we don't really try that hard. You figure eggs, tuna, and some lean ground beef would be a good protein start and wouldn't cost a ton.