315x10 for 10 not cool? It's fucking awesome. I have no idea why anyone needs to "feel" a lift anywhere. A lot of this has to do with how you do the movement based on your build. So you are worrying about nothing and something you can't change.
You start taking every cue from every "internet lifter" and you will wind up fucking up your training. Get your body in position and focus on ONE thing. It's best to vet who you get your information from too.
Be thankful - you are making progress and closing in on a goal. The legions of morons will try to get you to overthink this. The day you think during a lift is the day your get hurt or fuck it up.
I'm just beyond frustrated at all this - do what you want.