I have a sex addition and am not a doctor so I cant give you medical advice. I can only tell you what worked for me.
One aspect of the problem is acquiring discipline. Forcing yourself to abstain when your body wants what it wants is difficult.
There may also be an emotional component to the habit. If you feel guilt, bad, negative, etc, after you wank it you need to explore why. No this is not some bullshit about religion. This behavior is exhibited in other addictive personalities, such as when an alcoholic may feel bad about getting drunk the night before. Sadly, the longest I have ever gone is about 7 days. I have a very high sex drive to begin with though.[/quote]
You actually just need to find and kill the wizard alien controlling you. [/quote]
LOL, loved that one.
On the topic, so you have trouble getting erections and premature ejaculation? Those seem contradicting. [/quote]
This is why I suspect his issue may be the inability to communicate what he wants to his partner.