It isn’t helpful to get yourself worked up because someone didn’t act/reply they way you wanted them to.
Candito is running a different business model to Jim, don’t be surprised if that means they engage you differently. And for accuracy, his programs aren’t free, he expects you to pay something when you begin using them. Again, there’s nothing to be gained by letting this work you up.
Jim and John are different people with different personalities. If you can deal with being spoonfed and with having to do some thinking for yourself, you’ll be better for it.