[quote]CSEagles1694 wrote:
I may sound like an asshole, but I don’t see what the point of training for something and not competing is. Here’s how I am.
If my career path ever lets me, I would strive to become one of, if not THE best, powerlifters of all time. Same with bodybuilding. If I were to ever start competing in bodybuilding, I would have to at least try to become an IFBB pro and possibly win the Olympia. Why? I just don’t see the point of trying to compete for something and NOT try to be the best that there is.
I’m hoping to compete in my first meet this summer and hopefully become addicted.
I’ve been competitive all my life and have striven to become the best at everything I do, even though sometimes it wasn’t going to happen. I always tried to be the best piano player, trumpet player, artist, anything it was, there was. It’s just my competitive mindset.
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I hate when people say this, but you’re still young.
The reason some people don’t become competitive is likely simple priorities. Family or work, whatever. They may also just not have huge confidence, or large enough imagination to envision themselves succeeding.
And the most likely answer is, they simply didn’t start their “thing” to compete in the first place.
Example: I’m running a lot in addition to lifting right now. I ran a marathon three weeks ago, am going to run another next week, and am running one every month till the end of the year. I am running these by myself. There is no “event” and no “competition”. It is something personal for me and I have an entirely different goal in mind.
Although I “get” why people may not hold a competitive mindset, my attitude is almost exactly like yours. I don’t know if I can be the best, but whenever I start an activity I become engrossed in it and want to succeed. I want to do my best. If I do my best to be the best, but finish short, then I can marginalize my regrets. But if I fought with half-power and finished short I would be cursing myself for years.