[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
Professor X wrote:
OctoberGirl wrote:
The OP is working on losing her weight. She isn’t the issue. All you folks jumping on and saying she should shut up until she loses the weight are the same ones that “amen” to every “bulking beast” that talks about the 30lbs his wife has put on.
get over it.
She’s working on a healthy lifestyle and just wants some suggestions for motivating her spouse.
When they married they were both in good shape. He PUSSIED OUT and got fat. She had 3 kids.
if you have some suggestions, great. If you just want to lay junk on a person already putting in the effort, you are a tool.
fucking bandwagon jumpers, I swear to god
If any human being thinks they will reach middle age without having to exercise to stay in shape without getting fat, they are delusional. That means that if a couple gets married and neither have the mentality that regular exercise is a good thing, it is simply a matter of time before they both get fat.
That doesn’t mean he “pussied out”. He never started to begin with.
She is the one who has changed (which is a good thing), but the woman he married wasn’t interested in working out apparently. That is why he will brush off anything she says on the issue BECAUSE SHE IS STILL CARRYING THE EXTRA WEIGHT.
He obviously doesn’t care that he has a beer belly. She now does care about her own.
She needs to face the fact that she will NOT change his mind for him and possibly the only thing that will get through to him is if she actually makes SIGNIFICANT progress.
Otherwise, he will continue to not care…and frankly, that is who she married, someone who doesn’t care about what shape he is in.
Why do women think they can change people?
PX?? Did you even read that they met in the service when they were both in top shape?
he had a 6-pack and was in good shape. Why wouldn’t she think that was part of his lifestyle?
It isn’t her trying to change him, it is her trying to cope with him HAVING PUSSIED OUT AND CHANGED.
the slob gave up
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Do you know how many out of shape retired military I know in their late 30’s who ONLY stayed in shape because the military made them?
These are things you find out about a person BEFORE you marry them.