I cold approached this girl at the uni library. I got her number and texted her later that day. The entire Conversation went like this
Me: This is a VIP# store with care
Her: LOL! Hey I'm sorry for being so rude when giving you my number my manager isn't the nicest person on earth so I didn't know how she would feel about it.
Me:No worries I understand she seems to be in a bad mood most of the time from what I noticed
Her: yeah idk what her deal is! I was like oh no i'm usually not that mean.
Me: Do you drink coffee?
Her: haha yeah I do! why?
Me: Rumor has it this place called starbucks serves coffee, we should go verify this rumor.
Her: Yeah why no! when do you want to go
Me: What about saturday at 6?
Her: I have work! 2 jobs so i'm always busy.
Me: Wow hard worker! what about friday at 11am?
Her: I work on Friday too!! lol i'm working 9-2 Friday and 5-10 Saturday.
Me: What about sunday?
Her: Nope that's family day LOL, You shuld know that
Me: Oh! well now I know
Her: I mean don't you have family day on sunday's hahaha
Me. I guess? I always assumed family day was every day?
Her: aww that's swwet! do you have a big family?
Me: Hmm not rly! we're a family of 6 wbu?
Her: I see just 4 my parents my brother and I
Me: It was nice chatting lmk when you're so we can get some coffee!
Her: Thanks you too.
So now i'm a bit skeptical because she's giving me sign that's she's interested but I just have a weird feeling about things So I text her 4 days later on sunday.
me: Hey! so how was family day?
For 12 hours I get no response. There's a read receipt so I know she read it. I them begin getting paranoid until I give in and send a another text
me: is everything ok?
she texts back in two mins
Her: Yeah i'm good! I was with my bf all and didn't have a chance to reply. I'm sorry
That's just sucked the air right out of me. I'd rather she denied me in the beginning but leading me on like that? really?
I send a message back
me: No worries
and that's the end of it. What would you guys do in this situation?