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My Husband Has No Sex Drive HELP!

My husband and I have been together for 3 years. We both work out regularly. We re both 35 and have a 4 month old son. He did use Deca, D balls and Tes Cyp in cycles and I dud notice in past that he would loose interest for about 3 weeks and then it would come back again. It has gotten so bad now though that I am loosing my mind. We have had sex 3 times in the past 3 months and the longest time was 6 weeks with no sex at all. I don’t feel like my husband is cheating on me, so please so comments about that.( I’ve been there with my ex I think I know the signs)I know he stopped his “gear” all together about 5- 6 months ago because he had terrible kidney values and elevated liver enzymes.

He’s lost 40 pounds and is very depressed.I don’t care what he looks like, he is sexy to me no matter how skinny he is and I try to tell him that. I want him so bad and he just has no interest in sex at all. Now my question is, could he have ruined his sex drive for life by doing what he was doing?

Does he need to be on hormone therapy now for life. I just want my sex life back and I feel as a married woman I forced to suffer along with him and it;s worst for me because I still want it!

maybe ask this in the gear section?
I have not even a clue, sorry.

Good luck to you tho!

You should post this in the Steroid Section.

If hes stopped his gear 5-6 months, his T levels should be back to norm by now…how many cycles did he do, and for how long, its possible it could have disrupted his sex drive.

Could see a endrocronologist

can I get your number?

There is also a very strong possibility that it is psychological. You said he is very depressed, right?

Have you had this conversation you posted here with him OP? That would be the first thing to do IMO. This is an issue you need to work through together and in order for that to happen you both need to be on the same page.

He might need to kickstart his testicles with something like hCG or clomid. Definitely get him to an endocrinologist and test his testosterone, estradiol, etc…

It’s good you’re not blaming yourself. My girlfriend is a head-turner and always ready and willing but I’d rather read Jane Austen if my hormones are switched off.
-Tom

[quote]Cron391 wrote:
You should post this in the Steroid Section.

If hes stopped his gear 5-6 months, his T levels should be back to norm by now…how many cycles did he do, and for how long, its possible it could have disrupted his sex drive.

Could see a endrocronologist[/quote]

Deca can shut you down hard. I’ve known people that took 2 years to come back to normal. Def see an Endo.

Sounds like classic deca-dick. The compounds he has taken will completely shut down your natural test production. He needs to follow a classic PCT regime to get things going again. No natural test = no sex drive at all no matter what. Without going into all the details research proper PCT and you will see things like Adex, Nolvadex, Clomid, HCG, Cabergoline etc etc.

I smell a troll/scammer

You speak with the grammar of a world of warcraft chinese gold farmer. If you’re not, I apologize, but as I am a huge nerd…I doubt I’m wrong.

[quote]VTBalla34 wrote:
I smell a troll/scammer[/quote]

First post and that avi?

Comon guys wake, clearly a troll.

Ive been reading the forum for awhile only recently joined. The thing is i really cant tell whos a troll and whos just stupid half the time.

Trollolol

[quote]VTBalla34 wrote:
I smell a troll/scammer[/quote]

If VTBalla34 says it I’d take stock in it.

Deca Dick.