Ok, so I know this is not SAMA but I need some advice regarding my girlfriend of about 2 years.
This may sound a little silly/selfish but I have always believed that charity starts at home. I have nothing against helping out, but I am a firm believer that one should looks after their own family and health before anything else.
My issue is that my gf seems to spend a lot of time volunteering for things such as umpiring at her local water polo league. She does not get paid for this, and she seems to be doing it most weeks (once or twice a week) when its meant to be shared throughout the team. This is just one example. But this takes away valuable time away from her evenings, meaning she has no time for the gym/to cook dinner/help with the housework etc etc. Keeping in mind she already spends 2 days a week in the evenings for team training.
Am I been a dick for thinking that she should be more selfish, and prioritize her time more for herself?? Im getting the feeling that people are taking advantage of the “generous” side of herself and that she is been a bit gullible.