I’m interested in soliciting both male and female opinions on this subject. Here is the situation: Lately I’ve been dating 3 different women, none of whom is aware the others exist (although they may in fact have their suspicions – it’s never been discussed).
Nothing problematic there. However, things progressed with each, and now I’ve slept with two of them and enagaged in Clintonesque Oval Office activities with the other.
So there’s the rub. My moral question is whether I was/am wrong to be sexually involved with more than one woman at once, given there was no understanding or even mention of exclusivity with anyone (and I used condoms with each, so don’t start with any health-related digressions)?
On a more pragmatic level, I have another question. I have definitely found that recently I like one of them more than the others – I would like to know whether you would have “the talk” with the other two and pursue the favorite, or keep going as is until they pushed the issue? FYI, I’m 28, and the women are between 26 and 29.
I appeal to the Forumites for the wisdom of your experience and insight. Thanks.