Marathon Sex Sessions?

I would he happy to talk with you in private. Not here. Wife is not on the table for public conversation, even in generalities.
I would say you’re about half right. There are some things that simply make sense.

You were right about one thing about me. I could take it or leave it when it came to sex that’s been true for many, many years.
I made a conscious decision I will never let it control me or what I do. I have seen a lot of people do a lot of stupid shit over sex. Worse than many drugs.

My friends with GF’s could never do shit. They always had to check on their mates, leave early…Fuck that.

Like I said I am a strange bird. Even as a young guy, anything other than ‘yes’ was a ‘no’ and I split. I probably left some on the table, but I had other things I could do, that made me just as happy and disease free and not a dad. No regrets. Not for that.

You took one for the team and made a buck… bravo!

You’re entire theory rests on you knowing my experience and ignoring what I said. That’s some pretty big issues with what you said - how often does your wife masturbate only stimulating anally?

I need a girl like that in my life xD

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@EmilyQ is my spirit animal. Just saying. Love your comments.

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Anyone of you ever had a sex marathon with a prostitute? xD

You haven’t said anything but “nobody likes anal” and then asking why I haven’t had it if it’s so good. I’m not sure what issue you’re referring to, or why you’re asking about masturbation. Some women like anal. Most I’ve known don’t, but I’ve had more than one that do. I don’t have to guess about your experience - your inference that nobody likes it means you’ve never met or known anyone who does.

And ignoring what you said? I answered your question of “how do you like it?”, as ridiculous as it was.

If you don’t understand why it wasn’t ridiculous then I’m afriad you don’t understand much.

Hey man, you hopped in to say that nobody likes something just because you’ve never known anybody who does. I’m telling you people do. Believe it or not, that’s up to you. But this conversation is literally going nowhere, you’re speaking entirely in hypotheticals, and you’re asking some kind of creepy questions, so I’m out.

Also, google “anal orgasm” and filter through the porn, you’ll find articles written by women on the subject.

I think if you want to change it, you should seek out a counselor comfortable talking about these things (not all are). I’m not moving this to a private context because it would be some sort of weird cross between professional and social, by email no less, and that’s not good for either of us. It’s one thing to share information I gain through work, either via official trainings or through exposure to a lot of lives, problems, and solutions, but another to take this beyond “interesting conversation” level. It IS an interesting conversation, and if you want to push it away from yourself to a more general context I’ll continue to participate. I think a very good and very interesting question for a board primarily populated by men is how to keep interest and excitement alive in long term relationships, and I think the conversation about how to be more responsive to women has been fascinating, for both the women and the men. So maybe a new thread, focused on sexuality (in a non-SAMA way), aging, and marriage. If people are interested I can start it. Otherwise my advice is to talk to someone. If you want to alter or delete your posts to be less private I’ll edit mine, too.

Mmm-hmm. People often need help because they live in an isolated bubble and are trying to invent the wheel on their own, and then become frustrated and/or embarrassed enough to give up. In all sorts of arenas: relationships, parenting, social stuff, just … everything. Therapy is a place where someone says, “Oh, this! It happens all the time!” and then offers practical solutions, or at least things to try or explore. That’s very different from the stuff you’re exposed to in basic undergrad psych classes, which are typically focused on development and/or mental illness.

You may be joking, I can’t tell, but assuming there’s an element of seriousness, what are your boundary issues, too closed off or too exposed and they get scared? Needy people are to be avoided like the plague. Emotionally self-sufficient people who want to be in a relationship FTW.

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Well, it was kind of ‘this is what we would have to do, so lets not go there’ kind of things. I would have to share a lot of private info before things really come into focus. Not willing to do that in public. If you think I have shared private things already, believe me I haven’t even scratched the surface…

The other scenario, like email, would be funny though:
“Who are you talking to?”
“Oh some girl from the internet, she’s really nice.”
“What the fuck?”
"What are you talking about? (pistol hammer pulls back)
“You.”

I think static and a hospital room would be the next thing I’d see if not Jesus… lol.

General is fine. This whole thing started in another thread as a “Wanna know something weird?” It was never meant to be it’s own thread and explode like this.

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Therapy and mental health are still very much taboo. Apparently, every other organ in your body can have issues, but not your brain or your a crazy asshole.

Just for the record, let’s try to keep this a flame free thread… This can be a sensitive topic for a lot of people, so let’s not shut people down.

Perhaps you have a future in it!
Truse me, you’d rather have cab fare then a needy chick.

Thanks for this.

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Why would I do that if I’m paying by the hour?

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The thing that really drives people crazy is not knowing whether they are or not.

A guy I worked with was known as “crazy T***” He came up to me one day and said “You know what I like about you?”, and thinking this is a set up for a major punchline, I say “what?”. He says " You’re the only one here that doesn’t think I’m nuts, so you must be really fucked up.".

I told him that I probably am, and so is he. The only difference is that I see myself as who I am, rather than what I am. A father, brother, husband, etc.

We became really good friends after that. With that one little axiom of self identification, crazy goes from first to like thirtieth on the list of things, and just like that, he became just T****.

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