Hey guys, I wanted to have a discussion on a topic that I can’t find any good information on. I would like to learn more about what is happening biologically during make-up sex and what the difference is between regular sex.
The reason why I ask is because in January 2010 I first noticed that my libido was diminishing. A month later me and my girlfriend got into a huge fight where we had broken up. This isn’t jus’ some girlfriend but someone I’ve been with for 8 years now. The fight was unrelated to my diminishing libido but after a week or two when we reconciled, I had a huge increase in libido. I was an animal and thought, “Whew! I still have my libido!” After awhile, it diminished again, rather quickly.
So again, does anyone have any good scholarly articles regarding make-up sex? It’s funny how reconciling with my girlfriend turned me from “not interested” the day before to “gorilla-crazy-horny” on the day we made up given that, at the time, my hormones shouldn’t have changed significantly during that span of a day.