Well I’ve been trying to figure this out for almost two years now. Meet a new girl, whom I am still with, but if I can’t get this straightened out I don’t believe I will be… So first time we go to do the deed, everything is working fine, then I start to get hot, really hot! This was in November so we cracked a window so I could cool down. Erection was gone when I started getting hot. The beginning of the year (2013) I also found out I have Raynauds. Prior to this night the only time I had performance issues was if I was nervous.
Usually only the first time with a new woman, never a problem before. Rock hard and all. I did not have relations with anyone for almost a year before meeting my current. We could have sex, but we had to get things under way quickly, usually before she was ready. But it was working so… Decided I had to figure out what has changed. My general doc sad my T and Vit D were trashed, I had been working out pretty hard for about a year, weights and long distance cycling.Vit D is fine now.
I had noticed a decrease in my sex drive, but figured it was because I had been pushing my self pretty hard. I’ve seen a urologist and he says everything’s fine physically. I don’t ride much these days even with a saddle that is designed to avoid issues with blood flow. In the back of my mind it’s a possibility until something proves otherwise.
In May 2013 my T was 372 and E2 was 35.I was put on 25mg Clomid ever other day. In August T was 621 and E2 was 42. I would say I felt slightly better, I was lifting heavy weights again and wanted sex more! So good! In February 2014 T was 790 and E2 wasn’t measured. Latest labs were T 758 E2 49. I’m now on 25mg MWF.
So right now I have pretty much no sex drive, she’s gorgeous and I have never had a better partner so that’s not the issue. Every time we go to get it on, it’s good for a bit, but then I start feeling hot and soon after loss of erection. Lately I’ve been loosing it while doing it. Doctors seem to want to ignore the body temp issue but I think it’s playing a big part as to what is off in my body.
My next appt is a couple weeks away and looking for more info to bring to them to try something different as this isn’t working. I’m still tired all the time and sex drive is wasted. Then there’s the body temp issue with is controlled by the hypothalamus.
Any feedback/advice would be greatly appreciated.
After reading the stickies, I’m 37, 6’1, ~215lbs, lost my hair around 20 and have never been able to grow a beard. Some morning wood, but not often.