More love life troubles, just what you all wanted to hear! Sorry, long post.
Here’s my situation:
I’m dating a girl right now. She has a gorgeous body, is a firecracker sexually, and filthy stinking rich. Like we’re talking, she will drop money on an expensive tropical vacation for us without even thinking twice about it. Sole heiress to a lucrative business.
Though somewhat materialistic, she’s a surprisingly nice gal, and she cooks and gyms regularly. She’s a bit eccentric, doesn’t go out much and is kind of clingy, but she seems to be a genuinely good person and the more I get to know her the more respect I have for her.
Most of my friends are jealous because it sounds like a dream, right? BUT…
The chemistry isn’t quite there for me. I don’t quite feel comfortable enough around her to ever truly be myself, and it seems she’s more into her idea of me rather than who I really am.
Normally, being a pampered trophy BF (especially when I’m a broke student) wouldn’t bother me, but recently I met a new friend. She’s also a gym junkie and comes from a pretty wealthy family (but not on the same level), but we have amazing chemistry. Being with her is like being with a friend that I’ve known for years.
We can talk perfectly candidly about just about anything (and there have been some interesting topics). She’s quite intelligent, yet crude, and can go from verbally sparring with me about politics to making dead baby jokes in a matter of minutes, which IMO makes for a great conversation. Very laid back, and one of the least crazy girls I’ve ever met.
Don’t think I’ve ever been attracted to a girl’s personality this much before. We’ve discussed it, and the feeling is entirely mutual. She also told me that she didn’t want to get involved with me while I’m in a relationship and she doesn’t want to be the homewrecker. She said, not without a hint of sadness, that I should choose what’s best for me and that she’d wait for me. Horribly bittersweet moment.
So there you have it: my life is basically the plot of every unimaginatively constructed rom-com you’ve ever seen. Two amazing women that I have a good deal of respect for, and a very hard decision to make. I’m at a horrible crossroads and it sucks. What would you do?