The thing is that my hams are large and strong--I have a reverse hyper and GHR bench and can do 300lbs for 12 reps on the RH and 12 reps w/45lbs on the GHR. My box squat PR is 575 on a low box, and I am squatting with a semi-narrow stance since I lift raw. I've also replaced my ME day with a deadlift day and concentrated on SLDL for sets of 5-6 (did 325x3 sets of 6 on thursday). Also do strict good mornings with 275 for 8 reps. Part of it is genetic, since I was young I've had "high" glute insertions so my butt sticks straight out.
I know a lot of girls like well-developed butts on guys, but mine is overdeveloped and probably unattractive to most (although in the past month two african american girls hit on me very aggressively--both gave me their numbers and this was at a sandwich shop and Kohl's, so it wasn't like I was looking for action.) women.
Today I changed my routine--it was DE Lower but I decided to do high bar free squats and just stuck w/ 365 for 8 sets of 3 in place of DE box squats. Then power cleans, abs, and calf work. I avoided any glute-dominant movements and only did 2 sets of reverse hypers solely to keep my back healthy.
I recently ordered a SS bar for my shoulder health, maybe using this will build my back and quads enough to get rid of some of my junk in the trunk.