Lonely :(

I apologize, ZEB. You indeed said no such thing.

Number 1 is definitely winning the race.

I like number 2 and 6 best, ZEB…

I think the advice about making a large circle of female friends… That’s a sure bet to find you someone better.

You can say this to yourself every morning when you wake up:
“I would never cheat on a girl I’m with. And I would never accept her cheating on me.” “That Dirty Whore!!@!”

Also, make sure to masterbate daily, and fantasize about porn stars, girls at work, etc… Everyone EXCEPT your ex… This helps you detach the idea of sexual gratification to the ex-gf.

You should also try online dating services.

I could have sworn on MD’s second to the last post near the end she mentioned “intercourse”
Oh shit, it says “interest course”!
(maybe I need to back off the 500mg. of tren a day)

muslhed1171, intercourse is good too, but you have to take the interest course first in order to possibly find someone with whom to have intercourse.

Hopefully, you’ll also find a partner with good intercostals. Just be careful you don’t hook up with someone who is heavily in debt because the interest cost will be too high. :wink:

Number one is definitely leading the pack!

MD-Thanks for the correction, you are solid in my book!

MD- Good point!

Archaic’s response is so funny!
Zeb, your advice is very good.

I too was in the same boat, and broke up with my live in boyfriend of three years last year. Three weeks later, my brother unexpectedly dropped dead from an aneurysm. So I know how your kind of loneliness can feel. I can only offer advice, it may or may not work for you. Focus on doing constructive things: have fun dating casually, do the things you love to do, surround yourself with and really appreciate people who are true friends and loved ones, take good care of your body (good diet and exercise), have many women friends.

A little over a year ago me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up. As you know the loneliness and utter despair can be very hard to accept. I don’t really know any tricks to make it go away, other than to say that in time it will. Go on with your life.
In my experience the only thing that can really help me get over an ex (REALLY over, to the point where you never think about her) is finding someone else with whom you’d rather be. I’m currently in that situation. Whether or not it pans out I don’t know, but either way it helped me get my feelings for my ex in line.

MD, I have never cheated on a girlfriend ever, and can’t really imagine ever doing so. Does that mean I can safely call people who cheat dirty whores?
To my knowledge most of my friends aren’t cheaters, although I know some that casually cheat on their gf’s. To me there is NO excuse for it, ever.

/Jacob

rep9210, it’s never OK to call a woman names, especially if a man is patting himself on the back for his prowess at nailing her at the same time.

I admire the fact you have never cheated on a woman.

Peace

MD

You get used to it. I live on Monk Island so I am used to not seeing women around. On the bright side the weather is 75 and sunny right now.