I’m 28 and lately, my sex drive has been almost non-existent. Not only am I not interested in sex anymore, when i do have sex my erections seem to be pretty soft… nowhere near what they used to be only a few years earlier (very large, full erections where the head would get somewhat shiney). I am still able to ‘get by’ and eventually orgasm but only after a LOT of time and effort… I even sometimes just stop without orgasming (which obviously has got my girlfriend feeling more than a little insecure).
It is a generally understood phenomenon that as a male ages his sex drive decreases and his ability to perform 'multiple sets' is reduced :)... I used to be able to have sex 5 times within a period of maybe 3 hours (day after day) and now I can rarely get myself to come on the second or third go around... even after waiting for an hour.
Anyway, my question is: Is this sort of reduction in libido and erectile function normal for someone who is only 28… I’m assuming it isn’t. Is there anything that can be done to help recover ‘normal’ functioning in regards to both libido and erectile function?
I've tried Viagra (the tiny, hard, green tabs from IP) at a 150-200mg dose and experienced excellent results... returned my erection quality as well as duration to levels I hadn't seen in at least a few years... however as Viagra doesn't address libido issues, things could hopefully still be better. I noticed also that after the Viagra, even late into the following day, I'd be having a lot more spontaneous erections than I'd had in years.
Could it be possible that I’m just ‘burnt out’ from having sex/masturbating on average 1-3 times a day for the last 10 years? I should also probably add that I rarely get enough sleep (4-6 hours a night) and have very bad sleeping habits (go to bed at 4-5am and wake up at 8-10am)… could this be contributing to the problem?
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks