Straight to the point.
I have met women who are students like me, have a good time on the first meet and generally see each other when we can but then they give me the “dont expect to have sex without doing [insert date-type stuff here]” or something worse.
I am not after a GF in these situations and if a girl does this I just find someone else and stop seeing them, I have no problem with this whatsoever.
These same girls I have been with who do the ‘paying for pussy’ talk are out on student nights and I see them pulling guys or having the fuckmenow look which every guy can spot a mile off so they’re not exactly worse off.
Why turn down regular, drunk-free sex with a guy they do like for ONS because the guy doesn’t want a GF/BF type of relationship with her.
Nothing really wrong with these girls, I am older than them at 28 where the normal university age is 18-22 but seriously, I want to avoid this in future as I have to admit I am just too straight up honest with them about it and I turn them off me.
Anyone got experience with this?[/quote]
Excuse me while I go a little PUA on you.
The SMV, or sexual market value of women is at its peak from around 17-24.
It is pretty much downhill from there.
Alas, in this period of their life they hold all the cards, which is good, because I want you to remember what that looks like, so that you remember when they no longer do.
They will never hold all the cards again, UNLESS, you marry one.
Then you are fucked.
So, in short, nothing you can do right now, you are 28, the tide will turn in around 2 years for you, save genuine affection for those who deserve it, pump and dump the rest.
Last, but not least, women in their early thirties who have all wised up and such?
Dont even shake their hand without a condom.[/quote]
I know men who look after themselves have an advantage come later life but here is the problem.
I do not know of any women my age or just under 28 who;
- Is attractive
- Doesn’t have a kid
- Is not divorced
- Do not wear the pants in any relationship
- Is not in serious debt
- Actually likes a guy for being a guy
Ive been with older women and they eventually gave me the same crap the younger ones do so once again I have to start all over again. To be frank it is putting me off wanting to get to know other women or even talk to them when I am out socialising.
Well, frankly, the disgust is supposed to come later, but why not get it out of the way asap?
And yes, for the most part they suck.
They are hypergamic more or less polygamous whores as long as they can and when they no longer can they “have matured and are ready for a longterm relationship”.
And you are supposed to be overjoyed to read their wishes from their quivering lips?
Caveat: There are decent women out there.
I know, I have met at least three.