Yeah we have a lot of double standards when it comes to sex and sex crimes. You're completely right though on this. It isn't all bad for guys though like the high school football rape incidents where numerous people were saying it was the girls fault for being wasted half the time. Lol, no rape is rape whether someone is drunk, sober, etc.
I don't think you'll ever have "equality" when it comes to sex and sex crimes. Reminds me of one of my favorite South Park episodes: