Going to use the better part of this year to stay in touch with her while earning money and building up a nice safety net, then go visit her in the fall. This way if things go south I can return without anything being fucked up monetarily here. That said we both want the same thing, which is commitment and ultimately possibly marriage.
She works a lot and has guys dump her for that precise reason, but since I intend to return to school (possibly abroad, for free) and pursue a livelihood myself I don't think it will be an issue especially because we will share habitation.
We're both really into each other, that isn't the problem. Just some more getting to know each other to do and trying to make things work personally and practically