Wonder no more.
I had to laugh at "pushing the envelope" with a 110-lb. bench. And you must understand that I love to squat and hate to DL. I'd never consider passing on a third-attempt squat but would jump all over the idea of bailing on a third-attempt DL. But I appreciate your thoughts, as always.
No. I prefer to be a moody, perfectionist annoyance to those around me.
So here's a video from sumo-ing last week. I really don't know what I'm doing and need serious help with setup. I am actually pushing my elbows into my knees to get leverage. I can handle the weight fine. But I think I'm doing just about everything wrong here: Feet too close in for my leg length, grip too wide, hips too high, etc. I'm hoping to be getting some help soon from some serious sumo-ers.