Sorry, but thats not rape. its only rape if you use force or the girl is underage. If every guy was arrested for using some sort of trickery to get a girl to have sex, 90% of guys would be in prison. is it rape if a guy tells a girl, hes going to iraq to fight in the war, to get the girl to have sex with him but he lied. is that rape? of course not. its the womans fault for not verifying it. words aren't illegal in anyway. 1st ammendment, like it or not. we can say whatever we want. people lie all the time to get what they want. pretending to be a man if your a woman, well, the woman should have been more aware. I'm quite sure she had a chance to say no, ummm, your a woman, and i will not have sex with you. if at that point, she was forced to have sex, then its rape.