My wife and I are not Asian but I’ve often spoken of following the Asian-American model of parenting. White Americans USED TO parent in the same way, til permisiveness, frowning on corporal punishment, and lack of judgment (who are you/am I to judge?) became en vogue.
My close friend of 31 years is Asian and I grew up with many of them.
There’s nothing stopping any couple of any race of such parenting (e.g., having a kid practice math for two to three hours after school, a smack across the face for gross misbehavior, attending school and sporting events, being involved in the arrangement of marriages, shunning sloppy appearance, and SHAMING misconduct, etc, etc) and that’s what was expected 50-plus years ago here.
Most boomer parents I inew up as a kid, as I reflect on the subject, were in freaking outer space and resembled Al Bundy – checked out mentally after work, parked themselves in front of the TV, accepted ANY boy/man, including degenerates, to go out with their daughters, physically and emotionally lazy, and so on. My dad was the most negligent man I know, but that’s another private story. I got other stories I can share when I get back to this.
Parenting can be a whole other thread.