Wrestling and BJJ are not on the same planet
First its hard to find a wrestling club that is open- usually they are full of HS, or college age kids looking to train - over the summer- they are not really geared for the causal user but sniff around if you are interested, its also not that fun when the 13 year old kid grinds you down for 3 hours Ever time you show up.
As far as BJJ and wrestling being on the same plane- the take downs in BJJ- are all so very very basic,
and really a preclude to being on the ground- and that’s as far as they go with them.
Every BJJ class I have been to maybe 3 of them have ever gone past , a double, maybe a single leg,
and the 4 most basic judo throws.
Take downs in wrestling, are the bread and butter of the game- its the first thing you learn.
more so in greco- and freestyle where there is very little time on the mat.
however Bjj is like all of the fun stuff HS and college wrestling leaves out.