It seems that the bigger I get, the more intimidated and/or jealous the dudes around me get. Now, I'm not huge by no means, 5'11, around 225. But to most people around me who think that you must be on steroids to get my size and remain small and weak day after day, I'm a bigger guy.
I've never been one to smile alot and generally have a serious look on my face but it seems like if I'm not smiling these days or cracking a joke, people label me as a dickhead. People who are much smaller would be considered simply confident but not me. I can't imagine what guys who actually are huge must go through.
When I was smaller, I don't recall being intimidated/jealous of anyone who was bigger than me. I was more impressed than anything else or just didn't give a fuck.
I definitely don't plan on changing who I am and just cheesing everywhere I go, which means most people will remain intimidated or whatever the hell their problem is.
So how do you bigger guys deal with that bullshit? Ordinarily I'd just say fuck it, but in work situations and other activities, it's probably a bad thing.
I don't mean to sound like I'm bragging or any of that brokeback shit, just wanted to maybe spark some discussion.