Few questions for those that would like to engage.
Have you ever chewed out your in laws?
What is your current relationship with your in laws?
I ask these 2 questions for now since,
I want to chew them out.
And I doubt my I will ever be on speaking terms with them ever again.
I'm just about 3 years into this relationship, and to say I've tolerated them would be generous.
I didn't start off hating them, but my wife being retarded enough to not keep her mouth shut regarding something has spiraled into her relatives talking crap about my mother.
I saw my mother cry (which is a rare occurrence) because of this "gossip." I was too upset at the time to try to get to the bottom of this. But after a few days, I did try to investigate the situation. I had my wife call them up, and find out if this is true or where the root of the problem is, I and have narrowed it down to my wife's mother and/or aunts spreading false news.
I in a really bad place and trying to put it behind. This has put a strain on me and my wife's relationship. I know I will need time.
Other than the 2 questions asked at the start, if anybody has anything to share, please feel free.
Thanks for the read.