I'm just efficient, we both need to have a plan where we dont kick the shit out of each other too soon. O knows her weights and I need structure. I can go too nuts with the heavy shit, so in my off time I follow her stuff. When I get in the mood to get ready, it is my plan and the volume changes for me. I like it so far. It is funny though, how smart she is, and how dumb I actually am. It is yin and yang for dummies.