No it's not possible as maximum height potential is almost entirely tied to genetics.
However, if you're interested in maximizing your potential with women, then maximizing your wealth is your best bet. However if you're not above average intelligence than your potential for for very high incomes is small.
However, couples in monogamous married relationships consistently report the best sex, so your ultimate goal should be to find the most virtuous woman and commit to her for life if you want to maximize the chances of a great sex life.
Your friends may be with more women when you're young, but those aren't the kind of women that are going to be the happiest in long term relationships and their happiness in the long run will likely suffer as a result.