OK, so this might be TSB, but I was just curious whether you hold your SO's physique up to the same standards as you do for yourself.
There was another fitness forum that discussed this, and surprisingly a lot of fit women seem to have lazy asses for bfs/husbands - i.e. don't exercise at all.
What about those that are just one night stands? Is the standard different than for someone you'd be serious about?
I guess I should go first since it's my thread. I've always been interested in staying healthy, although recently I've become more serious about lifting and eating right. It's very important to me that my SO keep a healthy and active lifestyle, despite what he looks like. It does bother me that my bf has a pretty shitty diet and doesn't take care of himself (it's not like I want to take on the role of his mother!).
But on top of that, I'm finding my preferences have started to change from being attracted only to tall and lean guys to more muscular MEN. My bf used to be a competitive xc runner, so he's lean lean lean. He still looks good, but I've been trying to encourage him to gain weigh,t but without being too pushy - after all, he'll do it when he wants it. But I can't help but drool over the guys I see at the gym. If I wasn't in a committed relationship, I would seriously become a lot more slutty. I guess strangely enough I'd be more picky about the physique of someone who's just a fling vs. someone I'm committed to.