Well, How do you define libido? Is having low libido equivalent to having low desire for any sort of physical intimacy or sexual experience?
Why am i asking this? I have had low levels of urge to engage in any sort of sexual activity, you know the type when you just want sex? It’s not very often i feel that. With lowish T, i have mood, fatigue problems and i am wondering what libido comprises. For example, some people masturbate often, others are okay if there other halves offer sexual favours however don’t initiate as often or have the energy to engage in a sexual intercourse.
I am comparatively more active in terms of other sexual activities like receiving oral sex when my other half offers and don’t find myself rejecting those advances, i also find myself masturbating at least once in 2 days, while the feelings driving these sessions are unmotivated or “just for the sake of it” nature. However when it comes to actual sex, i find myself lacking and completely worn out to think about it. When it comes down to it, as it requires a certain level of urge feeling to engage in intercourse, i classify this as very low libido but would like to hear other experiences with this.
This is just a curious topic to try and an effort at quantifying libido measurement. I understand that this is not something quantifiable but since everyone on here has had “low libido”, i think it’s a fair exercise. Did/do you feel completely off/worn out/uninterested for any sort of sexual activity or holistically?