[quote]Damici wrote:
You just making shit up as you go along . . . ?
Kailash wrote:
Yes, there is also the issue of hormonal balances. Though there is some degree of nutritional input involved in there as well as genetic.
In fact, fags are more likely to be high testosterone. These are probably the ones who have that macho act, or perhaps blend in well with normal men until they say “By the way, I’m gay.” Having an extraordinary high testosterone level, it is as if they are so manly, they just have to make a guy their bitch. Like women don’t even register anymore. And maybe those guy bitches have just enough estrogen + testosterone to mimic a female in their blown out hormonal ranges.
It seems similar with women. The bisexual chicks who I’ve known to have women as their bitches were all clearly high testosterone. And I’d bet their bitches fit a hormonal niche as well.
Now here’s something interesting: How much of who we are effects our hormones, and how much of our hormones effects who we are?
It’s all in some feedback loop, so that “As he thinks, so he is; as he continues to think, so he remains.” - James Allen
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I think so.
There is enough anectdotal evidence of every combination to refute any hard and fast rules about the nature vs nurture debate when it comes to homosexuality. I’ve known people that play the whole “macho man” thing, only to come out of the closet and go completely fem (btw, both of his parents were normal in every sense of the word and his mother was fairly attractive).
I also met two normal guys (normal appearances, normal suits and ties, etc) at a friend’s wedding, talked with them for quite some time about jobs, football, etc, only to be shocked to see them slow-dancing together a little while later. I’ve also seen the fem kid from 1st grade that everyone knew had a little “flair” all along, who ended up being straight.
There are also those people who struggle mightily with being gay and absolutely hate being that way. Those people make me think that it can’t always be 100% nurture and that there must be some biological/genetic component out there.
I’m sure that anyone who has lived an unsheltered life and has gotten out in the world has several of their own experiences like mine.
DB