Ok people let me try to break it down for you.
Now my wife and my neighbor have this agreement that they made when I was in Iraq.(i tryed to stop it but it didnt work.)
The way it works is that my wife will keep the neighbors kid when she goes to school and she will keep ours.
Now this is why it is difficult to say anything to her that would piss her off because she keeps our kid M,W,F. And we dont want her to treat our kid bad like being mean to her or just resent for us, going to our kid. Now we cant get daycare because it cost to much.
With that said, My neighbor has fucked us every chance she gets. She always brings her kid over for us to watch for shit like, Oh I need to clean my house can you watch her for me. Im like what the fuck do you think we do with our daughter when we clean.(on the inside)She always brings her kid over for some stupid shit. She has even went as far as trying to bring her over so she could get drunk with all of there friends. I stopped that one though. But she did get drunk one night before my wife had to go to school and my wife wouldnt bring our daughter over there. And I agreed. But the problem there is that I was working nights so now I had to stay up untill 4:30 in the afternoon and get no sleep and go to work that night all because she wanted to get drunk and me and my wife didnt want her watching our kid when she had a hangover.
But, my wife wont let me say anything to her. And beleive me I would have no trouble saying what I need to say. Here husband is part of it also. He just sends her to do the dirty work.
Then when hurricane Rita came through she was like oh my god I have to get out of here its gonna hit us. My dad wants me to come home. And she was gonne for about 4 days. Now before you say well it was a hurricane look what happened to N.O. We live in San Antonio. And we where evacuating people from where it was gonna hit to the base here. And Im like do you really think they would bring people here if it was gonna hit us? I dont think so. Her:: Oh no I have to go it gonna be bad its a hurricane. ME:: Oh yea your right the cost is just 220 miles away from us its gonna be unreal.
Needless to say she missed nothing but sun shine and 95 degree weather. Just like I told her it was gonna be like.
Now because of this my wife missed 2 days of school and 2 tests.
Once again my wife wont let me say anything to her or her husband.
Now the iceing on the cake. Today when I wake up. I am awaken by the sound of her loud obnoxious voice. I look at the clock. 6:00 WTF! I dont have to be up untill 7:45 Why is she here? I drift back to sleep. 6:30 I am awaken by 2 children screaming.(just from playing. kids are just loud) WTF! I know whos kid it is. 3 guesses. Thats right hers. Now why is here daughter at my house at 6:30. So I get up, I walk down stairs to see my daughter and hers with toys every place you can think of.(and my wife just cleaned the house last night) Then I look out my front door to see her entire liveing room set, entertainment center, baby stuff and alot of junk in my driveway.
She decided to have a garage sale and put all the shit in our drive way without asking. And I have to go to work and all the shit is behind my truck. I lost my mind. But,once again my wife wont let me say anything.
Any way enought of my rambling. Im just pissed about this whole thing.
If there is any advice anyone could give to me to maybe convince my wife to let me say something. Because here and here husband are just gonna keep fucking us over if I dont. But, like I said I dont want any resentment for us to be directed at my kid from her.
Any help would be great.