Translation: okay, ive been secretly gay from my parents and ive been in this situation for about 3 to 4 years. I occasionally stole some of his stuff... Ex. Condoms, lube. I always used them or at least one time on two. Recently my step dad started frequenting gay bars and i am tired of hiding my secret and he wants me to be happier and i need to know how to how to tell my parents that I want to be openly gay without letting them know about my past. Should i say "dad, ive been thinking and i want to follow my heart" or something else???
Also, if you are actualy posting about working out the problem is clearly with your step dad as despite starting off with parents you proceed to say 'him' all the time.
Whether in the pursuit of muscle or of men or both I wish you luck.