If women wanted sex as much as men, then the hetro sex scene would look like the gay male sex scene and it’s not even in the same universe - neither is the female gay scene.
Females tend to masturbate a lot less than males but I guess you could say females lie in response to questions like this.
Once in relationship and stresses of life are involved then individual instances may see the woman wanting sex more but if you froze the earth and took a survey asking who wanted sex right then and there. Then I think you’d have a clear answer. Maybe it’s nore accurate to say men and women want different types of sex and for some of those the desires of each is the same?