hey you guys,
i met this wonderful girl during christmas break and we are presently going out. i go to college about an hour away from her, and i get to see her alot. well during finals week my friends and i went out one night. i have this girl who has been my friend since the beginning of the school year who went with us. well before my current relationship i had kissed my friend’s (alexis’s) two other friends. When we went out that night we had alot to drink to take stress off the exams and somebody thought it was funny to say that if i kissed my friend alexis then it would be a hat trick like in hockey. well, i didn’t want to but then i was getting more and more drunk and we kissed but it was nothing big. me and alexis are just good friends and we were drunkand stupid and right after we did it the guilt hit me and we have both felt terrible since. it was really just as a joke and i didn’t realize it would hurt so bad. the question is should i tell my g/f anyway? i feel all it would do is make her not trust me when she really can. i have never done anyting like this before. i had a g/f for about 4 years before this and i never cheated on her. my g/f will be leaving for college next yera and i feel we just need to e close this summer since its the only time we have really ever hadto be close to each other. i feel real guilty for doing it even though it was just supposed to be a joke between friends, but then again i can’t look my current girl in the face without feeling so bad for her. but i also don’t want to put her through that pain for no big deal because me and that girl have no sexual or love attraction at all. we are strictly friends. please help me out thanks.