So I know this is not a good sign toward going into a marriage, but I was burned epically before and I just wanted to put my due diligence into this one. We live separately. So we’re getting married in two months and I wanted to make sure there would be no surprises this time around.
So I decided to put a GPS tracker in her car, it’s the kind that just logs and it’s pretty accurate, it’s not real time, you have to download the data off it after you retrieve it. So the first time I used it I only saw one thing that I thought was strange, she told me she went to her friends house after work and turned that persons alarm off…but the GPS tracker said she went right from the gym to this house I was unfamiliar with until midnight.
I was not happy about it and later she mentioned her friend I knew lived in that area and I thought ok, she felt bad about not coming to my house and she hung out with her girlfriends, whatever, i’m guilty of stopping by a strip club when I need stress relief after work on Fridays, which she doesn’t know about, it’s something I’ve been doing since I was 21. Mainly I just have a beer and enjoy watching the women dance. I’m not proud of it…Usually it’s just for an hour.
ok so I put the tracker in the car again, didn’t expect anything would result from it. I pulled it out of the car two and I see two separate days a week apart where she went to this house around 9pm or so and didn’t leave until the following morning.
So I think it’s possible it’s her female friend and maybe they parked her car at the friends house and picked it back up in the morning after a ladies night out?
So I’ve been trying to figure out for sure who lives at this house short of knocking on the door. If I knock on the door and it is her friend I wouldn’t know how to play it off. If it’s a dude then that’s a game changer.
She doesn’t seem at all like a cheater, we hold hands and act like love birds. I try probing questions without trying to seem like i’m a stalker. Really i’m just trying to be careful.
I don’t think she would like to know I GPS’d her…I wouldn’t want to lose her over it.
I really don’t know what to do…I did a lot of research on the internet, no dice.