[quote]Joe Joseph wrote:
lol! Great post though. I agree with that whole heartedly…
Little off topic (Gerdy, pens at the ready…)
I always cheated as a young man… i tried to be faithful but couldn’t resist the sexy come-ons…(i was good with me last GF tho) especially if i was doing well in the gym.
Now i am married, i get more than ever - partly due to the ring and partly due to the physique - maybe my personality too…? Anyway, i LIKE to turn them down, and show my ring (wedding ring, childish!) It makes me feel good, empowered that i can turn down sexy women for the love of my wife…
OH MY GOD… WHAT HAVE I DONEEE!!!
*runs desperately out of the door[/quote]
Well, I will be the first to admit that I am not always the smoothest talker when it comes to the ladies. I really do mean not always. Sometimes I can keep an attractive babe’s true interest and other times I can’t.
When I started up lifting, the thought of attracting more women did cross my mind, but it was for sure not the main reason. If anything in relation to women, it bodybuilding has given me more confidence just to mingle with them. I guess the kind of girls that really like huge muscles so much that they’d bang you on sight aren’t the girls I’m into. I like hot, but intellectual, funny, faithful, God-loving girls… which is why I also picked up guitar along with bodybuilding. Haha, just kidding. I would continue to play guitar until the day I die even if girls were repulsed by guitars.
As for the Asians and Blacks having a bigger thing for muscles, I totally agree. My university I attend has a decent Asian population and I catch a lot of them staring at me. As for the black girls, I hear a group of them in my classes ALL the time talking about how they’re dating bodybuilders or they dated one or how they at least think that they’re extremely attractive. Shallowest girls I’ve ever met. They wouldn’t even consider dating a guy if he has less than 200 lbs of lean body mass, is under 10% BF and is tan as hell with a good face, lots of money, a sports car. and a perfect, sparkling smile.
I’m about 30 lbs of fat and 25 lbs of muscle away from having a classic bodybuilder physique and I can’t wait. In my opinion, I think it is that type of physique that will attract the most women. You have muscle for the women that love muscle, you have a small, unbloated waist, low bodyfat for a six pack, and you’re not some mass monster that people run away from. Plus the classic bodybuilders didn’t overdo the tanning and oils.