Thanks for all of the advice everyone…we talked it over.It’s mostly a mixture of her insecurities and her thinking I’m doing it just to impress other people, which it’s not.
I mean, she’s seen my progress from a girl-like runt to what would be normal build in testosterone standards, and she’s scared of me running off with another girl; hence, the whole insecurity thing. If she thinks this is the reason, and that I devote a lot of my time to this made-up reason, then you can see where the problem came in to play.
Alot of it will come with time as well, I dont think you mentioned how long you’ve been together . Trust takes a long time to REALLY build up despite what your s/o says.
Give it time and maby even try to include her as well.
It’s about two years now we’ve been together… the first year where I never lifted seriously and was skinny… and the second in which I turned my life around. We’re pretty good on the trust thing…but every once in awhile something stupid like this comes up, and then soon after it goes back to being normal again. Everything’s great, but like I said, every road has its bumps.