If you don’t want to get married, you don’t get married. You, sir, do not want to get married. Own it and let her know on no uncertain terms.
Sure you love her and you want her to be happy. Why does that mean you have to marry her? Fulfilling her marriage fantasy is not your role. It is, however, her role to conform her fantasies with reality.
You are both 24. Why not just enjoy each other’s company?
Unfortunately, she will likely react poorly to your giving her ultimatum the middle finger. Once again, however, this is not your concern. If she wants to bully or guilt you into marriage, she was the wrong girl all along.
Stand up for yourself. Be prepared to see her pout. Be better than her bullshit.[/quote]
See and this is exactly how I feel. That’s the conversation I expect to have tonight that I’m not looking forward to. I don’t want to break up with her at all, but the fact of the matter is, if that’s what she is putting on the table, she has other priorities rather than me. [/quote]
Is it me or do I just fail to understand why a man should dread returning home because he will face his womans wrath?
If you are unhappy about returning home to her when she has a bee in her bonnet then what will happen when you are married to her?
At least being gf/bf ensures the power is not all in her ball park.
I just don’t want to have that conversation because it will ruin my night most likely. [/quote]
Yes it will. I’ve been there a couple of times.
Just make sure you’re doing the right thing, first.