Hello guys and girl
I moved down south from up north (England)2 years ago as the girl I met at university wanted to move back home. I have barely adjusted to it but made the sacrifice as we both love each other alot and talk about marriage etc and all the usual things. We are currently living with her parents whilst we save for a deposit to buy (which seems to be neverending.
She has managed to get herself on a 2 year grad scheme. One of the best around which is great and I am happy for her. However it is two 6 month placements and one 12 month placement all around the country so she will have to keep moving around. Her first placement starts in september in Birmingham so she will be moving there.
She wants me to go but this will be extremely tricky to change jobs/find new one plus I will have to do it all again in 6 months! I dont however want to stay down her eon my own with her parents!? The only option is looking for a houseshare/flat back up north which feels like the most backwards self defeating step ever and will inevitably put great pressure on our relationship as it will feel like a backward step. she is sad at the thought of me not going and has suggested she should not do the job. but it is a great oportunity and she should do it.
Does anyone have any advice or in a similar situation>?