Some of you guys know about the girl that I was “dating” although it wasn’t official or anything like that. Well, school started again and that means that shes back in North America (shes Korean, was home in Korea for the summer).
When she got back we started hanging out and it was all good. Took her out to eat and whatnot, y’know just to get reacquainted since we hadn’t seen each other for a while. So like the 3 day that we’re back and hanging out I call her up after school. Heres the conversation,
Me: Hey, wanna go do something?
Me: …Uhh, why not?
Her: I’m watching movies with my friends.
Me: Oh, well, do you wanna do something later?
Me: Ummm, okay. Well I guess I’ll talk to you later then.
That was on Thursday afternoon and I saw her a couple times around campus later on that day and she ignored me both times. WTF?!?! So over the weekend I decided that I wanna find out whats going on and if she actually wants something to happen between us. So on Monday evening I call her up and tell her that I need to get together and talk with her later on that night.
So we get together later that night and I basically told her “Nothings changed for me over the summer, I still like you, I still want something to happen between us. I’m curious if you want something to happen between us as well.”
So she thinks about it for a while then comes out and tells me, “I just like you as a friend. I’m comfortable around you, I feel that I can tell you things.” At this point, she had just finished ripping out my heart, throwing it on the ground, and beating the hell out of it with a meat tenderizer. So we’re talking and stuff after she gets my response and she says to me, “Are you sad?” Heres my response, “What?! You’re asking if I’m sad?! Of course I’m fucking sad you bitch! Look what you just fucking did to me!!” …Well, at least thats what I wanted to say. However, I just said “No.”
So then after this and finding out when she decided that she just wants to be friends and all that, I asked her if she’d ever go back to liking me as a boyfriend. Her response in a happy, “not a care in the world,” jovial voice … “Nope!”
I’m sure a lot of guys here have heard the “Friendship Speech.” Anybody get it and was able to rebound back to relationship status? Any suggestions on ways to rebound back to relationship status? Or am I just fucked in the friendship zone? One friend of mine told me just to avoid her for about 2-3 weeks or so and she’ll possibly start wanting me again, but the problem is, she told me that she decided that she liked me as a friend sometime during the summer so I have a bad feeling her mind is somewhat made up.
I was so pissed off all week long (it was this past Monday) and if I had a big bottle of Jack Daniels, I would’ve drank it…all of it.