She stopped talking to me after bragging about me and showing pics of me to her friends. She, her friends, and I are all Greeks (yeah I can be T-Nation's resident douchey fratboy lol). She had mentioned that one of her friends knew me from before.
I've been a Greek a bit longer than she has, and I've been out of the community for awhile. But back in the day, everybody in the Greek community knew me as "the guy with the kid". I've been a fratboy long enough to know how much Greeks gossip, so I'd say it's pretty much a given.
You're correct. I don't have anything invested. It's not like I'm new to being rejected for being a father, so it's nothing personal.
Perhaps my initial post came off a bit more whiny/angsty/beta than what I meant. I just wanted to know if I should bother trying to invest the effort to continue or just move on to the next one. Or even better, for the single people with kids on here, what you've found to be the best time/way to broach the subject of having a kid in general. I've experimented with a lot of strategies, but with limited success.
Maybe this isn't as deserving of a thread as others, but I hardly think it's worse than the giving up on women one.