Alright, so I met this girl and we hit it off great. Even though she’s a bit odd, I really like her for some reason. Just felt a really good connection. And I’m 100% sure she felt the same way.
Whereas before she was texting/calling me all the time, she abruptly stopped and won’t answer my texts (well… text lol) either. And I’ve got a pretty good suspicion why.
I have a 2 year old son which I never told her about. I never lied about it, and I wouldn’t, either. It just never came up and I didn’t volunteer it. There’s a pretty high probability she found out about it, so I’m thinking she’s pretty pissed.
Any chance of salvaging this?[/quote]
How do you think she found out? If shes interested enough in you she will get back in touch with you, I just wouldn’t do too much pursuing at this point.
She stopped talking to me after bragging about me and showing pics of me to her friends. She, her friends, and I are all Greeks (yeah I can be T-Nation’s resident douchey fratboy lol). She had mentioned that one of her friends knew me from before.
I’ve been a Greek a bit longer than she has, and I’ve been out of the community for awhile. But back in the day, everybody in the Greek community knew me as “the guy with the kid”. I’ve been a fratboy long enough to know how much Greeks gossip, so I’d say it’s pretty much a given.
You’re correct. I don’t have anything invested. It’s not like I’m new to being rejected for being a father, so it’s nothing personal.
Perhaps my initial post came off a bit more whiny/angsty/beta than what I meant. I just wanted to know if I should bother trying to invest the effort to continue or just move on to the next one. Or even better, for the single people with kids on here, what you’ve found to be the best time/way to broach the subject of having a kid in general. I’ve experimented with a lot of strategies, but with limited success.
Maybe this isn’t as deserving of a thread as others, but I hardly think it’s worse than the giving up on women one.[/quote]
Ehh You’re putting too much thought into this. Just drop a GPS in her purse and lets get on with it.