Ok I’m not really sure where to post this…
So I recently moved to a different area, and in with a few random people. My friends list at the moment is bleak at best, just made friends with the friends of my house mates. Now one of these friends took a interest in me and initiated a littles more.
Skip a few months we became friends with benefits, I stipulated it had to be this because I didn’t know how long I would be around for. I also had to reemphasise it a few times as I thought she was hoping for more (she kind of was). It caused a few little moments but we always moved on quickly.
She has decided she is off on holiday for two months in two weeks. Now I found out from another person and it kind of made me realise I do like her more than first thought. I brought this up with her but this time we didn’t just move on. She is still going away and said after a lot if thought, it would be best to stop.
Now I have done what she has asked and moved on from those feelings for now and I am fine with that, the issue is it looks like she can’t even be my friend… I texted her the next day and got a limited response, I called her out on it and asked if she is cutting me out completely, which she replied “I can’t even say, I deffs just need time ATM. I’m just so overwhelmed”.
Now I’ve left it for now but I’m pretty worried I’ve lost my best mate?
Should I just completely leave it until she initiates contact, even if thats not even till she gets back? Or approach her in a week?