looking for some opinions here.
Me and the fiance live in MD, her parents in DE about 1.5 hrs away. They’ve been wanting us to come visit for the weekend for a while now, but I usually work on the weekends (really good pay for only 1 hr each day).
I finally got a weekend off about a month ago, but her parents had plans to go away.
Now her mom is bugging her again that we NEED to come visit and here’s part of the email “You and Mark will DEFINITELY be at our house the morning of 12/21 and at Grandma’s on the 24th, right? I need to know ? like today- you’ve got that commitment from Mark.”
Pushy much? at this point, we’re trying to save for a wedding and have Christmas coming up.
Not to mention, I have a dog and they don’t let dogs in their house. This means that I have to drive an hr in the opposite direction one way (2 hrs total x 2 to pick the dog back up) to drop my dog off at my family’s house.
A 1.5 hr trip one way becomes a 3.5 hr trip all because they don’t want a dog in the house.
this is the 1st time I’ve had to deal with a significant other’s parents living more than 10 mins away, so it makes things a bit difficult.