A little background before the question.
I have good friend who was engaged to this girl for about 1.5 years. They were supposed to be married last august. About April '04 he called and said that she broke it off. Of course he was pissed and didn’t talk to her much for a while after that.
This past fall i was talking to him and he mentioned that she had been seeing some guy from her hometown and she was now pregnant and apparently this guy didn’t want anything more to do with her. My friend also mentioned that they had been speaking more often of late.
More time passed and i didn’t hear much about her until a few weeks ago. My buddy said she was in town visiting him and that he had gone to stay with her the weekend before. When i asked him, he also said that he had recently slept with her again and they had been talking a lot more.
Now this girl came from kind of a broken home and was pretty much livin the life with my friend and he would have taken care of her no doubt. After they split I thought that would be it, espcially when i heard of her pregnancy. But now it looks like he might be willing to take her back, bastard child and everything.
I really don’t think this is a good idea, and i would hate for him to get dragged down by this bitch. Being a bit cynical i have to question her intentions.
Can i do or say anything that will make him see the light or do i just keep my mouth shut and hope that he figures it out on his own?