For anyone interested, my friend's dad runs a junkyard/auto repair place in east-central New Jersey, and in the back there are:
2 45lb plates
2 35lb plates
2 25lb plates
(all above plates are Standard brand)
1 45lb bar
a couple of 10lb plates and I think 2 smaller bars(one easy curl, 1 strait), along with a bench. The stuff has been left out in the rain, but looked ok when I saw them last night. If anyone is interested, let me know and I'll send you the address and phone. My friend will probably just give you the stuff or ask for a few bucks in exchange.