Matches are called after a 15 point difference, and I never lost by point fall. I was pinned in like world record time though by a kid who went on to the olympic team though. Thats the difference between pretty good regionally and excellent at an international level.
They are different in a lot of ways but share a whole ton of similarities at the individual and team level. Individual efforts contributing to team performance among them.
And no denying that one team was better than the other. I wouldn't do that in a million years, but going full on "You're all a bunch of losers!" is about as unbalanced as filing a bullying report because they lost(which, if I haven't said it, is complete crap imho).