[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
I have a table in my meeting room positioned so that the head is at the room door. It could be the foot I suppose but I like sitting by the door, I feel it gives me greater command of my audience. Plus I like the view out the back window.
I’ve been in meetings with other people at their office who do the same. Not sure i follow the
'weak" logic. It’s more like you can control who comes in or out, but I suppose that is a state of mind/personal perception.
I also find that when “making a deal” closing in on personal space, when done correctly, is helpful. You bring their gaurd up, break it down, give control of it back to them but own it psychologically. It’s very key.
No offense to any one posting, but it’s my impression that generally the pussies do the chest puffing, shoulder bumping on a sidewalk and general posturing in public, not to be confused with sizing up, checking out, looking over what ever.
Like a little dog barking it’s head off but needing an escape route just in case the dog it’s barking at gets serious.
Big dogs on the other hand never get off the porch, even if they are cornered by a house and railings. The thought of a threat just doesn’t cross their mind in day to day life but if one appears you can bet a bulldog will bite it’s neck until it submits.
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I got in a lot of trouble when I was younger, so it became second nature. always park facing out, always have running shoes on. things like that, no because of the fight, but to get away once the fight was over. Then from working security I got in the habit of always having walls or fences at my back, not letting people be directly behind me, and I still hate it.
When we are in unfamiliar places, I make my wife walk in front of me, with the kids, then I can keep track of what is going on. It is funny how unsafe the layout of most areas is, as far as violence rape and abduction. I mean places you would think should be.
there is also a difference between puffing your chest and challenging, sometimes people give off an insult through body language without knowing it.
And to be astute to body language is a good thing, we have a primal and instinctive nature, it would be idiotic not to understand it.